Will I get married if I have Vitiligo?

The simple answer is YES! One of the most pressing questions of all time includes the criteria needed to get married! And as someone with vitiligo, the unfortunate discrimination, and social isolation that comes with it drives the individual crazy. But be rest assured, that your skin condition is NOT a deciding factor in your personal relationship. You are deserving of love and shall get married too!

The uncertainty that remains in your head is absolutely normal. Let us put forth a simple example. While your head blasts with the anxiousness of your skin condition being an obstacle in your love life, someone else would perceive a different situation as an obstacle. In the end, it all depends on how we perceive our reality and choose to embrace or run away from it, doesn’t it?

Will my partner or child get vitiligo, if I have the condition?

Vitiligo is NOT contagious.

Everyone desires a safe and prosperous marital life. One wishes their spouse to be fit and healthy. Vitiligo is an auto-immune skin condition and has no impact on the health of another person. It does not spread through touch, sharing of clothes or other grooming products. It is non-harmful, non-contagious and non-infectious.

A person with vitiligo will not spread the condition to other members of his/her family. The genetic probability and inheritance of vitiligo are 1 in 5 individuals. This means that, if the father or mother has vitiligo, there is a little chance that the child might develop vitiligo too. However, it is essential to understand that multiple other factors play a vital role in the genetic transfer of the condition.

Useful read: Chances of vitiligo development from parents to children

Choose to find love and choose to get married!

Your skin condition is NOT the definition of your personality. It is not your entire identity, but is simply a part of it. Vitiligo often becomes the outer cover that people choose to view. The inner talents, skills and qualities of an individual often get overshadowed by the outer cover of the skin condition.

Do not let this cover hide your most amazing qualities and abilities. Let people see what you are capable of. Once you see yourself beyond your skin condition and show the world your talents, people too will look behind the outer cover. You are equally entitled to a happy life. Do not feel hesitant to take up a job or meet new people. Find people, interact with them, build relationships and look at a happy future with a prospective match!

Should I hide the truth about my condition from my partner?

While this looks like an easy way out, the answer is NO.

A successful relationship is based on truth and trust. It is okay to feel hesitant and reluctant to speak about your condition. You might feel triggered or uncomfortable as well. But it is very necessary to let your partner know about your condition. Not only will this help your partner understand you better, but it will also give you the assurance of being in the company of a trustworthy person. Your partner can help you in the future, now that he or she knows what you are going through. A simple conversation can help in better future decisions and healthier emotional bonding.

Hiding the truth about your condition can pose negative consequences in the future. It is very likely that your partner might find the truth by themselves or by others. It can trigger a lot of arguments and could lead to your partner not being able to trust you. Conversations can become difficult, arguments might increase, and there is a possibility of your relationship turning sour, ending or resulting in a divorce.

It will take a much higher ounce of courage to speak about the condition but it will surely help you build a stronger foundation of trust and commitment in your relationship in the future. 🙂

What if my partner ends the marriage or the relationship after knowing the truth?

It is very normal for your partner to feel apprehensive. They might move out of the conversation abruptly or may not continue it. It is necessary to give them some time to formulate their thoughts and process the facts you’ve told them.

However, if your partner ends up ignoring you or making fun of your condition, that person is not fit to be your partner. One is entitled to respect and one must stand up for it. The rejection might feel painful and damaging to your self-esteem. But you will understand that it’s better to let go of a person who doesn’t understand you than spend a life of ridicule and discrimination with him or her!

I’m ready to get married and I feel confident about myself. But where do I find the perfect match?

It is a commendable feat to find your inner confidence! And we are here to find you your perfect match. Let us be your cupid! Sign up on our matrimonial site which we have exclusively curated for people with skin conditions to find their partners. A platform with no discrimination, no stereotypes and no prejudice, we are here to simply share love and help you find it too. Register on our site and find your partner now!